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Big Issue JUN 26: I left my abuser – and then the family court gave him mychildren

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When Veronica met her abuser, she was 19 and he was 50.
“If you’ve ever seen the film Sleeping with the Enemy, that was my 11 years,” says Veronica, whose name has been changed to protect her privacy. She lists out the abuse she and their three children endured – she claims he restricted her food intake, measuredher wrists, strangled her son with toddler reins, made comments about her children’sgenitalia, and only used sexual language around their six-year-old daughter.

Period12 Jun 2026

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  • TitleJune 12, 2026 I left my abuser – and then the family court gave him mychildren
    Media name/outletBig Issue
    Country/TerritoryUnited Kingdom
    Date12/06/26
    DescriptionDr Elizabeth Dalgarno, lecturer at the University of Manchester and Director of SHERAResearch Group, says: “Too often, protective mothers are separated from their children,despite acting to safeguard them from harm.”

    As an active advocate for reform in family court, Dr Dalgarno says: “The court systemremains highly misogynistic, [and] has historically prioritised parents’ needs over those ofchildren.” Beyond a full prohibition on the use of alienation frameworks, Dr Dalgarno saysthat a cultural change is needed, without which, she expressed concern that “the sameissues will persist under new labels.”
    URLhttps://www.bigissue.com/news/social-justice/left-abuser-family-court-custody-children-parental-alienation/
    PersonsElizabeth Dalgarno